Choice – Make the choice now that this is YOUR life and you are going to take responsibility for your thoughts and actions. Confident people always accept responsibility for their actions instead of always having some kind of explanation or excuse.
Since studies have revealed that up to 93% of communication is non verbal I would think we should focus more on what our bodies are saying about us before we speak a word.
Bodily signals are the most reliable non verbal signs of deception. A person generally has less conscious control over his body movement. Hand to face gestures and shrugs are a strong sigh of deception. Playing and touching nearby items during conversations has also been found to be associated with deception. Deceivers are also likely to have increased activity, quick and animated use of
Eyes- The eyes communicate more than any other part of the human anatomy. People with relaxed eye movements and attentive to the person they are conversing with are seen as more sincere and honest. Staring and gazing can create pressure and tension. Many of fights have started simply from the way someone looked at them. Shifty eyes, too much blinking always suggest deception. Maintained
Space – Gauge the distance. The closer someone is to you, the warmer his opinions are of you. The farther away the less they care. Always be careful to be respectful of people’s space since it can cause an individual to feel uncomfortable or threatened. When meeting someone if you step into the meeting having your right foot angled in front of you that will give you the appropriate space
Smile – A real smile is a powerful tool for enhancing relationships of all types. With over 80 facial muscles involved in smiling it is still pretty easy to tell if a smile is true. A true smile shows up in two areas of the face. The corners of the mouth curve upward and outward. The bigger the smile the more teeth will show and even a slight drop in the jaw. Also the outer corners of
Posture - A strong posture is an immediate look of confidence. Shoulders back, head held high and typically looking straight ahead.
You see body language is subconscious, non-verbal communication composed of diction, posture, eye contact, tone and voice. This in combination to your wardrobe can impact your life in addition to having your life run smother since also being able to read body language you do not waste a lot of time trying to figure out what they really meant. In the sales, meeting and daily negations